Husbands and Wives Behaviour.

HOW ELSE CAN YOU SAY IT, BUT TRUTHFULLY. SO HERE GOES.

My wife started to get angry, which I thought would pass, so I humoured what was niggeling her, to give her time to work through her issue, out of respect. Usually she handles these pesterings and comes out clean. If someone has an issue and starts behaving not like your wife, or husband, then we need to respectfully give them space to overcome and defeat the issue.

If your partner seems to be endangering their sanity, so as to lose the peace of Yahusha in the home, then we must intervene and speak up to prevent our partner from falling asleep and losing the love. Manifesting such behaviour towards each other can eventuate in marriage destruction.

At any rate getting back to the point I think it so important for the body (Yahusha's bride) to understand and discuss these arising issues so we all realise we are working together and agree with how to behave a marriage.

My wife got herself to a stage where she was complaining in Yahusha's face about the lifestyle He had given her. So I said to her politely "WHAT IS IT! THAT YOU DON'T UNDERSTAND ABOUT YOUR ROLE ?" Well brothers this question knocked her for a sixer,back to consciousness. I then said, "LISTEN YOU ARE MY HELP MATE, YOUR ROLL IS TO HELP ME DO WHAT YAHUSHA GIVES US TO DO, WE HEAR HIS VOICE DISCUSS WHAT HE WANTS DONE AND ACHIEVE IT". She was flabbergasted realising how much she had fallen asleep and how ungrateful and rude she had been to Yahusha's loving kindness.

I said to my darling, MY ROLE IS TO LOVE YOU AS YAHUSHA LOVES THE ASSEMBLY,HE GAVE HIS LIFE FOR IT - I HAVE TO LOVE YOU AS I LOVE MYSELF - I HAVE TO GIVE THIS UP AND GIVE YOU THE PRE-EMINENCE IN MY LIFE. YOU HAVE TO LOVE ME AS YOU LOVE YAHUSHA AND RESPECT ME AND YOUR ROLE IS TO SUBMIT TO THIS INSTRUCTION AND YOU WILL FIND PEACE. I HAVE TO SUBMIT TO THIS SAME INSTRUCTION FOR MY PEACE.

Scripture tells us if we are unmarried we have to do the same for the Assembly and this means that we are all loving each other with the correct Qodesh (set-apart) Love, bringing peace and trust into the body.

I said, "VICTORIA THESE ARE OUR ROLES ACCORDING TO TURAH, READ THE INSTRUCTION IN EPH 5:21-33 IT IS ALL THERE, WE ARE EITHER GRATEFUL AND OBEDIENT TO THE MASTER'S WORD OR WE GO DOWN THE WRONG PATH TO DESTRUCTION. YAHUSHA WANTS AN OBEDIENT WIFE WHO WILL PROVE HER LOVE FOR HIM WITH THE RIGHT BEHAVIOUR HE DESIRES. NOW DO YOU UNDERSTAND YOUR ROLE MY DARLING. Victoria was most gracious and said she was sorry and hadn't realised she had fallen asleep. Victoria said she never thought of it in this light.

Brothers and sisters Yahusha wants His bride in correct behaviour and this is why we are told to overcome this world and ourselves (die to ourselves) to bring forth the fruit of righteousness. All this simply comes down to our BEHAVIOUR.

By Chris Hilton . . .